Director’s Statement

My friend Kathleen Kiley gave me a copy of her screenplay entitled “Mother” and as soon as I began to read it I envisioned Kathleen Chalfant as the lead character of Joan, and Keir Dullea as her husband, Bill. I was fortunate enough to have interviewed these extraordinary actors while making the documentary film “Operation Lysistrata.”  I am always attracted to scripts that have strong female characters, and I found the characters of Joan and her daughter Caroline very intriguing. Soon Ms. Kiley and I began to write new scenes and edit others with the idea of shooting this complex script on what’s known as a SAG ultra-low budget. Our collaboration was retitled “Isn’t It Delicious”. We felt that the title should reflect the “Seize The Day” message that Ms. Kiley had ingrained in the script. When Kathleen Chalfant said yes, it was a truly magical moment and the filmmaking process took off like a locomotive quickly gaining in speed. Keir Dullea, Mia Dillon, and Malachy McCourt came aboard, and during the 1st read through of the script, Alice Ripely’s agent, who was in attendance, said he’d like her to take part, and Alice was cast as Caroline, Joan and Bill’s daughter. My friend Alfred Caiola and I had long talked about making films together. When Alfred read the script and heard that Kathleen, Keir, Alice, Mia, and Malachy were on board, we knew we’d found the right project.

Shooting a film with little money and resources forces people to do great things, and as we crewed up for shooting many crew members came aboard because they felt that with a cast this special, who were willing to work for so little, that we would succeed. Most films shot on ultra-low budgets limit the locations to keep the cost down. We decided to shoot in Ms. Kiley’s hometown of Trumbull, Connecticut and surrounding counties taking advantages of multiple locations and donations of prop cars, and other in-kind services, as many of Ms. Kiley’s friends and relatives were eager to help. We shot for 25 days over the month of August and we shot late into the night on August 27th with hurricane Irene baring down, and as Axel, (the Director of Photography), and I drove home on an empty highway we had no idea the devastation we would awake to. Hurricane Irene forced us to shut down temporarily, but we returned to CT on September 4th to shoot four scenes over the course of one very long day. The cast and crew rallied to work late hours under incredible conditions because they believed in the script and these wonderful actors.


When Joan Daly, the controlling matriarch of an upper-middle class New England family, discovers she is dying of lung cancer, she sets out to reconcile her dysfunctional relationships with her three children, her husband, and along the way, her former best friend. After learning of her diagnosis, Joan decides not to pursue chemotherapy or any alternative treatment. The family’s destructive ways are offset by messy and often humorous attempts by Joan to set her children on the right course before she dies. She will also have to truly see her husband for the first time. In this big dysfunctional mix, everyone will learn to connect in their own ways and realize on their own terms what life is about.